151) This woman clued you in on a valuable piece of information regarding women. When a woman orgasms it has little to do with what the man is doing to her and mostly to do with what she is doing, inside her head.
A woman can easily orgasm with any man she chooses to. If the woman you are fucking isn't orgasming, it's because she CHOOSES to see you as someone who isn't sexually stimulating. It is EXTREMELY important to understand that (within limits) how sexual you appear toward a woman isn't under your direct control. You can slim down, lift weights and even get cosmetic surgery and she won't be attracted. She will, temporarily, be attracted to a guy who makes himself unavailable. And she definitely will be attracted if you make yourself inappropriate in some way (leather jackets, tattoos, earrings and other bad boy image stuff are favourites).
Part of this is the hilarious situation that often a woman you barely know, cums like a banshee at the slightest stimulation, and then becomes completely frigid later on in the relationship. Often they will try to mask this as "issues with intimacy". But what is really going on here, is she is purposefully shutting down her own sexual impulses, because she no longer thinks she needs to please you anymore.
This isn't true with men. A woman, who makes herself look in certain stereotypical ways, will make herself generically attractive to all men. And a woman, who fucks you with ardor and skill, will definitely make you orgasm.The point here is frigidity in women is a big warning sign. It is intentional, passive aggressive behaviour that is just a part of the bigger issue of disrespect. If a woman starts having "sexual problems" like this, dump her immediately, for two reasons. The next one won't (ie, there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you are fucking her). AND, the woman you just dumped, seems to have no problem orgasming with the biker/meth dealer living next door (even though, he is so drugged out of his mind, he can barely get it up).
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152) The woman who is the "exception" phenomena is very dangerous. Because there is always the chance that they actually are the exception, it practically demands that you respect that and value them. However, I have never actually met a woman like this, but I HAVE met tons of women who pretended to be this way. They give incredible lip service to virtues, love and good values. But their behaviour gives them away. How a woman acts, both now, and in the past, is the true measure of her character. It's a good idea to ignore what they say and watch what they do.
As for the, finding good women to be female friends thing, BEWARE, women spend a great deal of time trying to harm their friends, especially their female friends. You can expect hateful rumours, attempts to sleep with your boyfriend, outright stealing from you, and attempts to get you hooked on drugs and other charming behaviours. Just like I said for men, ignore what they say and watch what they do. And don't turn your back on them for a second.
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153) I'd like to share a section from the book, The Predatory Female, by Rev. Lawrence Shannon, that might explain better, what's going on. This sort of thing, with women, is extremely common (it happened to me, only much worse, lol)
Love Gap
Q. I lived with a girl for over a year, but when I refused to marry her, she broke off our affair and moved out. Within two weeks she was married to another man. I saw her recently and she behaved like a stranger, despite having professed undying love only three months previously. How do you explain such radical changes?
A. There were no changes. She never cared about you in the first place, but you have been blind to it by failing to grasp the nature of the predatory female. You loved her but she didn't love you. She is incapable of loving anyone, including her new husband. A predatory female never loves anyone but herself [note: my personal belief is she never loves anyone, ever, especially herself.....that's the real source of the problem.] Using sex to lure men into loving her, she can only pretend at loving them back. This is natural, involuntary behaviour for the predatory female. She feeds them sex, fusses over them, makes them feel loved, but it's only an act. It's the chameleon syndrome in full bloom. [Note: chameleon syndrome is described elsewhere in the book.....women are able to take on whatever character traits and behaviours make them seem the most attractive to an pending victim] She uses their love, or infatuation, to manipulate and control, stinging them like the wasp on a spider's back, until they are incapable of rational thought where she is concerned. The predatory female never becomes emotionally involved in the same way a male does. Her emotional involvement is strictly contingent upon her degree of success in bringing the male crashing to earth. It is not a conscious deceit, but an unconscious one. When, as in your case, she fails to trap him permanently [or chooses not to], she can easily leave because her involvement was only temporal. This is one of the toughest axioms for men to accept: Predatory females flatly don't care. The person deserving the sympathy is the poor unfortunate who married her. He has volunteered to become the host body for this parasite, and serves as another proof that slavery is the natural state of man.
Q. I just can't believe that women don't really ever love men, at least in the same way men love them.
A. The predatory female herself is sometimes fooled in this regard. She can be victimized by her own predatory nature, especially if she's young. But the experienced ones know better. They're counting on your inability to understand or accept it. They know your male ego will side with them. If your girlfriend sincerely believes she loves you, be sympathetic, be understanding. She doesn't know herself yet. But don't let her immaturity bring havoc into your life.
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154) In retrospect, feral isn't a good term. It implies that these people have returned to a wild, natural state, much like a pet will, if you abandon it. Savage is a better term. A good portion of what a human is (which is different from every other creature on the planet), is a matter of choice. When we raise children, we can choose to put good things or bad things into them. When they get older, they can choose what they bring into themselves. It's been this way since homo-sapiens first swung down out of the trees and chose to live like men, not animals. We can choose to live like good men or bad men. Unlike animals, that choice isn't made for us already, by our biology. It's the source of our power and also the source of our folly......depending on the natural consequences of the choices we make.
Increasingly, women are choosing to bring bad things into themselves and to pass on those bad things to their children. They look for men WHO WILL ASSIST THEM IN THIS TASK. At the very least, they shirk their responsibility to bring good things into themselves and put good things into children. Instead, they let random people influence themselves and their children. A lot of evil people, know about this, and seek to exploit this situation for various ends (for example, gangs, pimps, drug dealers, and other miscellaneous scum).
One thing that REALLY pisses women off, is when you point out the specific consequences of things they do. They get highly offended, thinking you are trying to manipulate them (being huge manipulators, they think everyone else is too). There is a grain of truth to this. Often, when someone is trying to manipulate you, they will punish you with shame and anger, anything to attach a negative emotion onto whatever it is they want to change for their benefit. They are a bit vague and ambiguous on the connection. You should/should not do that thing. Why? Because it's right/wrong. What they mean by right is what they want. What they mean by wrong, is what they don't want. But, this isn't what I'm talking about.
People can choose to do anything they want to. But they can't choose the consequences. That's what I'm talking about. Women constantly get these two things confused. They want to be free to do whatever thing they want, AND, to choose the consequences. This isn't possible. It's like someone jumping off a building and expecting not to fall.
The ingenuity of men is one long history of using superior understanding to seem to break the laws of nature, for some benefit. But it's only an illusion. What's actually happening is men learn more laws of nature and combine them to get a different outcome. For example, if you jumped off a building with a parachute, you might get a completely different consequence. That's great. It's why MEN, have been the ones to build everything of consequence for the last several thousand years.
But women see this, and are fooled. They see the man jumping off the building in a parachute and landing safely. So they insist, it's OK to just jump off. After a few have fallen to their death, they start screaming at men to do something. They get royally pissed, when you hand them a parachute, and throw it away, usually screaming about how worthless you are, the whole time. A few more fall to their deaths. Finally, the men, throw their hands up in frustration, and walk away.
Some, get so fed up, they leave, and cross the mountain range to the next tribe over. They strike up a conversation with a local girl and mention the parachute they invented. The girl smiles and says.....oooooh, a parachute, how does it work, can I try it?
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QUOTE: women are bitches to nice girls they perceive as losers precisely b/c they are nice
Hahaha.....want to know why they are doing that? Because you are ruining the scam for them. If they are a bitch, but you act nice, men will lose all interest in them and transfer it to you, forcing them to compete. They hate that. And want to trick you into giving up that behaviour.Since you are most certainly in competition with the bitch, under no circumstances should you give that up, or anything else that makes you in demand. At this point in time, a great many women are stuck in a very negative vibe.....leaving the field wide open, for an ambitious girl who knows what she is doing.
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